A lot of important changes

This post is different from all others you have read here so far. There are no BDSM tips or recommendations this time. I am writing this because a lot of things have changed at Bedroom Bondage, and if you have enjoyed this blog, and want to continue reading our articles, you should take a moment and see what it is all about.

What changes are you talking about?
Because of the limitations that come with running this blog through WordPress, I have decided to do it differently. I have spent many hours on building the new, appealing, professional looking Bedroom Bondage website, where the new articles will be published in the future.

Will this blog disappear?
Eventually, yes. I am giving my followers some time to find and get used to the new website. Until then, you will only find the introductions of the old articles on here. Clicking “read more” will now take you to the new blog. After a couple of months, I will delete this blog, http://www.bedroombondage.wordpress.com, permanently, if it hasn’t been deleted by WordPress by that time already, since they have been deleting sexually orientated blogs.

What will I find on the new website?
Eventually, I want the new website to be known for four things: information (in the form of eBooks and articles), high-end artisan made products, honest reviews on BDSM gear and awesome sex toys, and the one-of-a-kind product recommendation service. The website is still a little empty at the moment, but you can download our popular (over 600 downloads in a week) BDSM Checklist, read a variety of articles, have a look at the latest items in the shop, ask for my help in finding the perfect toys for you, and read more about us, and what we stand for. There are a lot of packages on their way to us filled with stunning whips, sex toys, cuffs and more, so the first reviews will be up soon as well.
And one of the best additions (in my opinion), is that Sir will be writing articles for the site as well.

So, what should I do now?
If you haven’t already, head over to http://www.bedroombondage.co.za, and made sure to subscribe to the RSS or mail feed, and enter your e-mail address to receive our upcoming newsletter. And if you really don’t want to miss anything that is going on at Bedroom Bondage, I recommend you like us on Facebook, and follow us on Twitter, Tumblr, Pinterest and Google+.

I look forward to “see” you on the new site!

Darling, WHY do you want to ‘hurt’ me?

I was asked a very interesting question today, by a gentleman who is a dominant, with a yet-to-be submissive partner, and wants to introduce his kink to her (in this case some good old whipping) and asked me to share my thoughts on getting her to comply. I had to think about this for a while, and wasn’t quite sure how I would have approached this, but then something that I had mentioned in my earlier article came to mind..

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Review: G-Glass by Simply Blown

The G-Glass is a glass dildo handcrafted by Simply Blown’s artisans using thousand year old traditional techniques still in use by the worlds greatest glass masters, and designed for g-spot stimulation. It is available in five striking, vibrant colors: emerald, ruby, amethyst, topaz, and aqua (our test color). It comes in one size, and retails for $180.00.

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Sir says | From ‘vanilla’ to ‘Dom’: how I started with BDSM

When I first ventured into the world of BDSM at the request of my partner, I was hesitant and slightly appalled at the thought of granting her request for a whipping, that would leave marks..! I had never ‘beaten’ a woman before, my mind racing.. wondering what my parents would think of this if they knew.. “OK..man up, man.. give the lady what she wants!” The first time she showed me her bare bottom, and encouraged me to whip her, I was careful not to hit too hard, but it wasn’t long before she urged me to strike her more vigorously, and I wasn’t so sure, but..

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6 Savvy Tips to Get the BDSM Gear YOU Want

Before diving straight into the actual products that should be in your BDSM kit (next article), I’d like to share some valuable tips with you, which will make your whole kinky online shopping experience much more fun, and help you to save money. And when I say ‘save money’, I’m not talking about a lousy $5 off. More about that later… But for now, let’s get into the right way to shop for your gear.

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