Often, I visit other BDSM related Facebook pages, to research or to answer people’s questions. Six days ago, I came across this touching piece (it’s original title ‘His Aftercare, His Love’) by The Loving Dom you’re about to read. He managed to capture the sensations a submissive goes through during aftercare so well, it took my breath away.
It came to my attention that quite a few fans and followers would love to know about how they could take care of their submissive, after their BDSM play. Aftercare, an extremely important part of BDSM, is sadly overlooked by most couples. Clarisse Thorn wrote: “Being together with an S&M partner during aftercare can be used to free people, to make them feel amazing and establish extraordinary intimacy.”
BDSM can be practiced while being involved in different ‘relationships’. These may include playing together with a friend (or even acquittance), as a service (paying a Mistress for her services, for example), with a stranger (at a party or club) or with your loving partner. I’m all about exploring BDSM as a couple, so that is what this article is about.