Category Archives: Safety

10 Top Tips for New Dominants

I was scrolling through my Tumblr feed, when I came across a post with the title ‘for new dominants’ by Daddy’s Whorecrux. Throughout the years, I’ve noticed there are many dominants out there, who are very eager to make someone their submissive, without having educated themselves first, so I thought it would be a good idea to share these tips with you. Please note this list is inspired by, but not a literal copy of, the post by the aforementioned blogger.

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BDSM How To | Aftercare 101

It came to my attention that quite a few fans and followers would love to know about how they could take care of their submissive, after their BDSM play. Aftercare, an extremely important part of BDSM, is sadly overlooked by most couples. Clarisse Thorn wrote: “Being together with an S&M partner during aftercare can be used to free people, to make them feel amazing and establish extraordinary intimacy.”

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Love: a Great Addition to BDSM

BDSM can be practiced while being involved in different ‘relationships’. These may include playing together with a friend (or even acquittance), as a service (paying a Mistress for her services, for example), with a stranger (at a party or club) or with your loving partner. I’m all about exploring BDSM as a couple, so that is what this article is about.

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